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Before I joined Da Company ....
After I joined Da Company ...
Before living together ....
After living together ....
When I was living in a nice 4-room flat ...
Now living in an exec. mansionette ...
A year ago ....
Now ....
Before marriage ...
After marriage ...
I looked back sometimes, and wondered if I would have done certain things differently. I knew there were other options, but I chose to go down certain paths because at that point in time, it was the most appropriate way out. Not the best, but the most appropriate.
So if you ask me if I regret it ... No, I don't. I only did what I had to do.
I only hope now that I can find the strength to change the present and the future. Maybe not the present, but the future.
posted by Adrenaline at 11:46 PM
10 Comments:
It's upsetting to find sad faces pasted all over your blog. Cheer up! Perhaps it's time to be pro-active..
i.e share your workload concerns with supervisor (he might hire more workers?), find out from your faster colleagues how they managed to get the work done??
i.e hire a maid! haha...okie lah, share workload with Mr Honey lor, or ...perhaps food can get from catering company (tin-fin-carrier -->how to spell huh?!) or parents..hehehe *evil*, liddat save time.
Go Go Go! ;)
Being frens for so long, I volunteered to take over some of your troubles. You can pass me the keys and title deeds to your house when you are free :)
Its good to know that you've no regrets on the decisions and paths that you have taken.
Always look forward hopefully into the future, not backward regretfully on the past. :)
Living and looking forward is far braver than the other laternatives.
5 hours of housework?
Adrenaline. you superwoman! *salute*
5 hours was the total amount of time i spend on house-cleaning, half-yearly. (^_^) (yes, i am living alone).
hmm.. i promise i'll share the housework with my dear when we get married =)
freakkler: i am very pro-active! but some things doesn't change. But I do have a domestic helper nowadays, which makes things so much easier. However, she isn't as meticulous as me, so i end up still mopping floors and such on weekdays.
sian: and how does that take over my troubles? u want to help me, u come over and help me wash toilet bowls, u shit.
ensui: yeah, it's my life motto after my dad passed away ... "leave no room for regret."
ogre: by other alternatives, u mean suicide issit?? no no .... i juz dont hv the guts to kill myself. heh.
imnothere: i agree. sometimes i also think im superwoman. The only difference is after all the work, i feel tired and superwoman doesn't (i think).
mi lor: don't say say only hor. better make sure u really do it! =)
Indeed, holding a full time job + wife + domestic cleaner in a mansionette do qualify you to superwoman level.
Hmmm, how abt engaging Part time cleaning lady? My bro gets a cleaning lady once a week to do some of the house cleaning that most of us are too darn lazy to do. It costs abt S$30 for 3 hours.
Having help in the cleaning wont drain you so much physically and emotionally. Let me know if you need the contact yah~
Yeah man. If your work gives you a lot of happy factor it would be wonderful. Maybe you can think of having small and big goals in your work so that you can have something to work towards to - for smaller sense of achievements first, then bigger ones.
And of course, in my opinion, having some of the household chores shared will be greatly appreciated. Is Mr. Bf reading this?
And did you do all the faces yourself? Haha. I also hope you find the strength to do what you want to do, and may whatever you do be the best decision, not just appropriate. =)
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