Thank you all for your concern. It seems to me that the wedding has to go on.
We can't communicate and can't understand each other.
I don't know what is going to happen. I only know that I won't be a happy bride.
posted by Adrenaline at 9:50 PM
9 Comments:
dear ad,
as before, i can't really offer much advice.
however, as i am from a far-from-happy family myself. i will advise not to pass the quarrel on to the children. it stuffed them up.
once again, even if you are not happy, i wish that you won't be sad all the time either.
rgds
imnothere
We'll be there for you. We'll try to, even though we don't do it all the time, but when the push comes to the shove, just holler and you'll find team Power Rangers by your side.
been reading u for some time. sorry to hear of all these. always turn to ur family or close frens when u need someone to be there, im sure they'll be there to support u! *huggs!
I've been in somewhat similar circumstances before, so i have an inkling on how you feel. The feeling that your world had changed overnight into an unfamilar surroundings, is not a pleasant one.
I won't presume to tell you what to do, but this is my humble opinion: Do not give up on your relationship. Remind yourself why you loved him and what you loved about him. Try to remember that he has always been there for you and that he knows you best.
I truly hope that you can salvage your relationship and that you'll be a happy bride once more. :)
I'm sorry to read about your current unhappy situation. I sense lotsa frustration and helplessness.
I think you need to ask the right questions that can lead you to answer whether is it all worth it to go ahead with this marriage.
I gained this insight from (Deirdre Anderson/Ian Thorpe)
http://www.theage.com.au/news/in-depth/stop-time-253/2006/11/24/1164341395964.html
Well I hope you can resolve this dilemma with a happy ending. Cheers.
Hey sweetie~ every relationship has to go through ups and downs. Hope its just a down phase u are passing thru. Ive seen brides who went thru this down phase before their wedding, and is now happily married. Remember what made you fall in love with him in the first place~ Hope that you will have a happiy ever after love story.
*hug* I can give a dozen advice snippets, but I'm sure you already had your share. Although I have not a chance yet to get to know you personally, I know we'll all be here just behind you. =)
Every situation is unique and being a fairly new blogder of your blog, I am not in any position to give advise and can only quote my personal experience...
I've had serious arguments with my hub after marriage. And once it was so bad that I was checking online sites on how to have a quickie divorce. I was probably over-reacting but it didn't feel so then. As for pre-marriage jitters... we had plenty and we didn't even have the advantage of being able to see each other in-person when we were wordless and at the mercy of telecommunication networks thousands of miles apart. On top of that, I learned fengshui/bazi for a couple years and both my masters said that the hub and I are incompatible. We still have our differences but while we are together, I think we're both committed to making it work. At least for most of the time. =)
I hope communication in your relationship improves and you can both better understand how the other person expresses his/her love.
u ok babe? *hugs*
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